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Sunday, September 25, 2011

Waiting Children - SO Many Hidden Jewels!

I know that many of my readers have a heart for children. Some are considering another adoption or praying about the right time to begin their first. Let me start by saying that I am not a salesperson and generally do a terrible job of pitching anything to anyone. Now that I've cleared that up, let me do my level best to convince you that, if God is calling you to adopt, The Philippines is a MARVELOUS country to consider!
I DO NOT want to be challenged by anyone regarding the tired old "why not adopt from the US . . . so many kids in foster care . . . taking care of our OWN . . .etc. etc.
That is another argument for another post. I have had it too many times and it's wearying. If you are called to adopt strictly American foster children, this may not be the post for you. However, IF you are open to travel, have a heart for kids outside of this country and a belief that EVERY life is precious to God - no matter where that life came to be, you may want to read on.
I have photos and narratives of literally dozens of beautiful, deserving Filipino children waiting for families. These children range in age from 2 years old to 15. There are boys and girls. Some have special needs and some do not, aside from their ages. There are sibling sets and singletons. There are hearing impaired, visually impaired, cognitively delayed and mobility impaired children featured along with perfectly healthy boys and girls who are just a little too old to be "easy to place". I love reading the files our agency receives and praying for each child. I have found three of our treasures from within these files. If you are GENUINELY interested in Philippine adoption, please contact me and we'll talk!
The rules set forth by the Inter Country Adoption Board prohibit any photos or specific information on these precious kiddos being placed on the internet.
I will tell you there is a child on that list whom I find particularly marvelous. He is a 14 year old boy of mixed Filipino/Kuwaiti descent. He is handsome and smart. His narrative reminds me so much of the information we received on Francis while we were pursuing his adoption - no problems, no red flags, he can play guitar and leads worship but simply was not available for adoption until he was already considered "old". It was a legal issue that kept him from being available, not his fault. If you are considering taking a BIG LEAP OF FAITH, please consider this 14 year old young man. PLEASE!
Here are some of the positive aspects of adopting a waiting child from The Philippines:
1. When compared to other international programs, the Philippine program is inexpensive.
2. The write ups, medical information and background info offered on the children are reliable and true. The ages of the children tend to be accurate.
3. ONE TRIP is required by ONE PARENT and the stay in country is only 5-7 days.
4. English is widely spoken in The Philippines and accommodations are very tourist friendly.
5. The process is transparent. Unlike some countries open for international adoption, you will NOT BE asked for additional money after your fees are paid to your accredited US agency. You will know before the process even begins how much each step will cost. There are no unpleasant surprises!
6. The Philippines is a Hague country and works to comply with all Hague regulations.
7. Some of the criteria for adopting from The Philippines (weight and age of adoptive parents) CAN be waived on a case by case basis for special needs/waiting children.
There are other positives to this program but I fear this post is already getting too long.
If you are out there reading and feeling that little flip flop in your belly, maybe that is your cue to email me and learn a little more about the amazing, precious, beautiful, life-changing children who are just a plane ride away and waiting for parents to claim them!

4 comments:

  1. I have been looking everywhere to try to find out if you need a foster home license to adopt from the Philippines. I live in Illinois, and you cannot get a foster home license if you have more than five children in IL. I have more than five children. We want very much to adopt from the Philippines, but we cannot get a foster home license. Will we need one? Do you know? Could you email me at
    nancycbill@sbcglobal.net?
    Thank you!

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    1. Nancy,
      You do not need a foster license to adopt internationally. The Philippines is a GREAT country to work with and is flexible with large families on a case-by-case basis. The first step is to find an adoption agency you are comfortable with that is accredited to work in The Philippines. We have used Christian Adoption Services out of Matthews, NC for all of our adoptions. They can work across state lines with a third-party homestudy agency. Check them out at www.christianadopt.org
      Feel free to email me with any country-specific questions or for any extra information.
      Blessings,
      Nikki
      nikki@bartimaeusproject.org

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  2. I am so happy to have found your blog! My husband and I are wanting to adopt a child with limb differences from the Philippines! We are currently scraping together the money for our application fee to Madison Adoption Associates to begin the process. Do you know of any Waiting Children with limb differences in the Philippines??

    Blessings,
    Amber
    akanallakan@gmail.com

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    1. Amber...thank you for your note! Madison should furnish you with the COMPLETE special home finding list of waiting children published about every six weeks by the Inter Country Adoption Board (icab) here. If you ask and they only show you two or three children, ask for the complete list and not just the kids Madison has placed on hold.
      Blessings to you and your husband as you seek His will for your new child!

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